
The Eastmont PTA hosts Parent Day each year. It is a fun opportunity for parents of all students to come and spend the day attending classes and remembering what the life of a middle school student looks like. My 8th grade experience was quite different, as I only had 10 kids in my class, and there were only about 50 roaming the halls of the entire school!
Cole's school has 900 students.
The day started at home with Cole reminding me not to embarrass him. "Don't dance in the hallway or anything, Mom.". But the best line was, "Mom, please don't wear anything that would make a 9th grader think you are hot". Priceless!
The day started off fantastic, I even saw a Snooki look alike in the hall! (no, I don't watch that show, have just seen pictures). Cole and I went from class to class. The teachers instructed their classes as though there were no parents there. We could just sit back and observe. I was very impressed with the teachers. They engaged the students, had fun, and made learning interesting. Then, I went to his TA period.
This is a 25 minute study hall, basically. Cole was attempting to do some homework from earlier classes, as were others. There were 3 students in there that spent the ENTIRE time disrupting what everyone else was doing. One student went and squatted over the garbage as though he were using the restroom, then proceeded to blow his nose over and over in an obnoxious manner. It just continued...
I don't blame the teacher at all for this situation. She did everything she could, while maintaining professionalism, but it was clear that respect was not taught in those students' homes. It is frustrating to me that teachers are asked to parent kids, as well as teach them. If you ever thought a teacher was overpaid, go visit a middle school for a day.